I've realised that I don't know as much about my friends and who they are (or the different people they can be) as much as I thought I did. I'm not saying that in any negative way, it's just that I never knew that.
My friends don't keep a part of them from me, it's just that they never talk with me about those other things because we both know that I'd never be interested. I don't resent my friends for that, but it is strange seeing your friends in a whole knew light. And I think it goes both ways, too.
I should be glad about this, though. Everyone needs a whole array of friends around them. Sure, I have my best friends whom I love dearly, but I don't talk to them about every single thing because even though we have our many shared interests, we also have interests that the other would definitely not like. They're also my best friends because we understand each other, and part of that understanding is that we don't want to see each other's faces everyday and talk about the same thing all the time. It gets monotonous and you start to get sick of your friend. I like how my friends understand me despite me being quite the impersonal "ice queen" that I am.
I don't know where this blog is going. I think I'll stop now.
Thanks for passing by.
P.S.: I'm really liking clouds at the moment.
2 comments:
This post is wonderful, it captures a whole lot of feelings and thoughts in my relationship with my friends.
x diana
I'm glad you thought so. Thanks for the ego-stroking comment and for following this blog.
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